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Name: Shannon
Country: United States
State: North Carolina
Metro: Goldsboro
Birthday: 4/5/1988
Gender: Female


Interests: Cooking, animals of any sort, City of Heroes, drawing, existing peacefully. =)
Expertise: Kids, I'm a nanny. =) I'm young, but damnit, I know what I'm doing!!! " bending mens minds so tightly around their necks that they can't help but freak out and obey your every command." -Jamie
Occupation: Nanny
Industry: Childcare


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Member Since: 9/29/2005

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Wednesday, November 21, 2007

A friend of mine in a Harvard econ class sent me this link that I'm assuming he was using for his homework, and bet me $20 that we were exactly opposite of each other. To his surprise, we were alot closer than he had initially thought. It finally prompted him to shut his mouth and stop judging all of my beliefs on the principles of a few of my core ones. He finally stopped to listen instead of coming at me all the time!!!!!  Then again, the results surprised even me. Mine placed me in the lower left quadrant... a pretty economically liberal and socially libertarian place to be.     

Mine were : Economic Left/Right: -3.50
                   Social Libertarian/Authoritarian: -3.64

 

If you would, take the test and post your results.  http://www.politicalcompass.org/test


Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Ah... It seems some people had some mixed emotions about my last post. Good to see people still look at this thing even though I'm never on it though.

It was sad that day. It really did mean something at the time, but it really wasn't an accurate statement. I was feeling sorry for myself pretty much. I was going through some really difficult stuff in my relationship, and I wasn't sure how to deal with it. I loved him very, very much, and it made it very difficult to consider moving out of the relationship, and almost impossible to consider moving on after I left the relationship.

Oddly enough, that relationship ended up perservering until just a couple of days ago. We're both in agreement that we're better as friends right now. We still act like a couple though... but it's not as demanding. When you love someone, it makes it very difficult to stop crying and move on. Everyone wants to stop crying and to start moving on, but love is there and that can be an obstacle. That's what I meant. Love is to be pittied, not envied. At the very least people who don't love as strongly move on more easily.

I have to admit now though, looking onto that comment, even as badly as I feel right now I strongly disagree with my past self. When I fall, I fall hard. When I love, I love strongly. I feel very bad right now, actually. I've done nothing but cry the past few days. I can't eat, I can't sleep, but when I do sleep I can't seem to get out of bed. Even watching The Tick and Spongebob don't seem to interest me much. The truth is though, I know I'm lucky as hell. Most people these days go through life with a very superficial understanding of what love is. If it doesn't hurt the worst, you haven't loved your best.

Forgive me for the comment, I was sadly mistaken.

 

PS: Wow, they sure have changed xanga alot...


Thursday, July 27, 2006

Love is an emotion to be pittied, not envied.


Wednesday, June 28, 2006

Hey guys,

Recently I signed up on a website called MatchingDonors.com  ...  On the website, patients in need of an organ transplant can sign up and post their profiles. People who wish to donate an organ as a live donor can also post their profiles.

I've been thinking for awhile that I wanted to donate organs/tissue as a living donor. See, normally people waiting for an organ have to wait on a list for someone to die, quite literally. Even in death, their donor must be listed as an organ donor, and must've been in decent health at death. The problem with this system, is that often times it takes several years for a match to come up for someone awaiting an organ. Alot of people die each day and every year because they never find a match.

Also, a patient who receives a transplant is more likely to not reject that organ when the organ comes from a living donor. There's a medication they can give a transplant patient a couple of days before the surgery to help them not reject the organ. When a patient receives an organ from a non-living donor, this isn't possible, because the surgery has to be done as an emergency surgery. There's no time to prep them for the organ, so they're more likely to reject it.

Long story short, your organs will go to much better use if you donate them while you're living. You can donate a kidney, a portion of your liver, a pancreas portion, a lung lobe, bone marrow, and even intestine.

www.MatchingDonors.com is a pretty controversial site. There's a bit of hype about people meeting each other over the internet. Often times, if you tell a transplant center where you met your donor, they won't do the transplant. So don't mention it if you donate unless you know they'll be cool with it. I signed up here, and I'm in the process of finding out what my blood type is so that I can determine who to get tested against. There's plenty of patients in need of an organ, and millions of people capable of donating to them. Unfortunately this seems to be one of those things that people are only willing to do after death. Either way, I intend fully to do it if a doctor determines that I'm healthy enough to participate in a transplant.

As far as I know,  you need to be 18 to join a donor program. I just turned 18, so lucky me! There's thousands and thousands of people who need help from people with healthy organs.You've probably come in contact with those people before. There's people here on xanga who need an organ... and everywhere you've ever been.

The only problem I face with this... is what if I match more then one person? Then I have to decide who to give my organ to. So, in order to make this decision a bit easier, I'm hoping to convince other people to at least give this a shot. I've heard tons of excuses, but the only legitimate one is if you're not healthy enough to do it. The patient in need of the organ, their insurance will cover the cost of your testing, organ extraction, and I think even the follow-ups. Often times, the patients/their family/church, etc, will pay for your lost wages and your travel/boarding costs... So I don't think that "Well I really can't afford it right now..." is a legitimate excuse either. This isn't for everyone I guess, but at least give it some thought.

God bless anyone who even considers this.

-Shannon


Sunday, June 11, 2006

Home is where the heart is....

And my heart just isn't in Florida or New Jersey.

Both are lovely places... (Except I don't like the ticks in Jersey... and I get hit on alot in Florida by really creepy men.)  So I'm back home. I think I'm just going to do what everyone else has to do, get a real job and pay some bills. I'm not taking any more shortcuts. Time to get a real life.

I am sooooo happy to be home. I don't think anyone can understand how content it is to be with family after a month of misery and dealing with strangers and their bad habits. I loved my jobs; I did not like the employers... Time to get my GED and go over to Morgantown to work. Good stuff, Lord. I feel human.

Oh, and it's nice to get some respect around here for once. I think after I left, I proved to my parents that I was willing to do anything to gain respect. It worked, too.

God bless you all. =)

 



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